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I think i need some butt kicking in my general direction as Ive just written my plan b letter (posted it on GQ2 yesterday) but I'm scared to send it and get real with it. I really dont want to do it. Does this make me too weak to enforce it? Are you sure theres no other way?<p>Dancer<p>Ps - Ive only got a small butt so dont kick too hard.
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Moving to plan B was one of the toughest things I have ever done. I waffled a couple of times before I was able to stand firm on it.<p>The thing you need to be resolved to is that plan b can lead to divorce. It is not for the weak of heart. For me, I would rather had risked divorce than had continue living with my wife while she continued her affair.<p>To make things easier, I would recommend you email the plan b letter or deliver it in a manner that does not require you to be there when they read it. My wife flipped out when I gave it to her and she became very mean. It made me want to waffle all over the place.
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