Well, I though it was getting better but I am now the other woman and he is still living with the 21yr old. Says he is moving out of her house as soon as she goes to work next week. He stays at my house a few nights a week and comes over a lot just to spend time with the boys and watch tv. We have talked about him coming home to be with his family but I say no go unless that relationship is over. He doesn't respond. But looks at me as though I should already know its over. In my eyes it isn't over until he moves out and has no more contact with her. I see him doing her like he has done me in the past. Staying at my house all night last tuesday night. I would love to know if she suspects something is going on. But telling her would be a mistake. I am just going to cool it off for now. I need to be logical now otherwise it will be just as before. My heart wont win this one. I don't know what to do, he is pursuing me more than ever and it is nice but he is still living in that house with HER....

Felicity<p>There is a post - I'm not sure if it was CarolK's or there was another one the same time - but will look for it & repost.<p>The gist of the post was using the principles from Lovebusting (which are compatible to MB) by taking your time, that if he is pursuing, to SLOWLY let him back in. <p>Also, do you feel you have a GOOD recovery plan
that the two of you have agree to? To read more about this - check out the article plan a & plan b. I just re-read this recently and there were some new things that stuck out. It looks like we found MB about the same time.<p> [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

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