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My WH and I have spent a lot of time together over the weekend. We had a funeral for a friend on Saturday morning, but were then supposed to go to no contact. Needless to say we've spent weekend nights together and the SF couldn't have been more loving and passionate. ~sigh~<p>Today we are discussing what it would take to reconcile. YIKES! Now I'm scared. We're going to have limited contact this week (so this can sink in) and get together for coffee next week to discuss this more. He HAS agreed to leave his job since he works with last OW.<p>So what do you think - am I insane?????<p> [img]images/icons/shocked.gif" border="0[/img]
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It must of been good, haven't heard from you in several days! For some reason you kept running across my mind over the weekend and I was wondering how you were doing.<p>I hope things work out for the best for you, in the long run you know they always will. Be careful not to get your hopes up too high, just so that you don't let yourself down too low if they don't turn out the way you want. <p>You're scared because you know the pressure is on. One thing that has helped me out is a line from a Sarah Mglagan (spelling?) song, "you have to let go of fear to let love show." Your strength will be challenged the most in the days to come, keep your head up high, you will make it.
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I am all for it...As long as you realize that things are not going to be perfect and that there will be some rocky times ahead. The devil really attacking the FAMILY. We have to fight hard to keep FAMILY together. With God's help, you and your husband will reconcile. Keep your head to the sky...."submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." James 4:7.BS (30) WH (31)
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thebetrayedone, thank you for thinking about me. I'm so scared that he will just continue his lies. We've had so many false recoveries over the past 2 years. We would agree to a plan to rebuild and then I would be the only one abiding by it. I would have other women telling me his new "secret" email addys. <p>insightfulone, thank you! I like this that you wrote: With God's help, you and your husband will reconcile. Keep your head to the sky...."submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." James 4:7.<p> [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]
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