My original post is called my husband lives with another woman. Well he still does. I have withdrawn myself from him, I am no longer arranging to meet with him for our children. I do not call so our children can speak with him. Every move that is made is made by him. I still do not let my children go stay with him. He spoke out of his own mouth that he & the girl fight alot, and I do not want my children apart of that. He has stopped asking me to let them come over, and says he understands. I have found myself a job, and I am enrolled in school for this August. I feel I am 24 years old, I put my life on hold for my husband & children I did not finish College.....I am going to now. I need to be a self sufficient Independant woman so, I can raise my daughters in a way that I feel they deserve.
I still do not receive child support, cause he is not working.I must say due to the fact that I am on Public aid....He pays all of our bills together out of his Unemployment he started receiving last month. I am thankful for that. He called me the other day, and asked me about a divorce. I asked him was he 100% certain that he wanted a divorce...He started crying & said no.He said we would have to talk later, he made some comment about not trusting the telephone, and he cant talk there. He has called my children almost everyday lately. He talks to me, and some of our issues, but says he can't really get into it until he gets to an outside phone cause he really cannot trust the phone. I told him he needs to get it together, cause this makes no sense to me.
i am not going to lie... I still love him to death. I admit I do not hurt any longer. If he gets hisself together gets his own place, I would defininately work on my marriage. But, as for now I am doing all I can to find happiness for my girls & myself.
Keep the faith Guys ! I feel like I have no where to go but up.
