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Thans Crip I have replied. She is coming home on Saturday so I won't be around her much now (just logged on to get my mail) can't sleep which seems to be the norm now. She is on Meds yes.

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Ben

i was just wondering where you were you havent been around all day and i was hoping to chat to you on e mail i have left you a message which i hope you can respond to. but i thought you might be here at some point today. I have somethings i want to chat to you about so if you get a chance mail me. I hope that your wife is well and the boys too. I htink too that if you can you should read more abuse books to help your wife as you said in a previous post that you do not get involved in her abuse recovery. I htink it important for you to understand why she is exhibiting certain behaviours. Does she self harm at all i think you said she doesnt. But i can discuss that with you privately if you want to.

hope you are well missing you here
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Thanks Crip, after our recent email I would prefer to keep the info here on the board. My W has POJA issues with anythinbg else.

I have read several books about child abuse and most have been very helpful. I have not been actively involved in my W's therapy at the request of her counsellor. They are trying to keep control of her emotions in those sessions. I am not very good at helping with talking about it, I just get very angry at what has happened to her and us as a result. It is also hard because she will not face her father, pretending instead that things are fine. Ben.

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