Hi, 4eTs. We are all happy to see you found MB and welcome you.
First, I can't find anything either regarding a husband wanting a divorce. Maybe someone else can shed some light on that. You might get some good advice if you post on the "Divorce" forum.
However, I do have a few comments:
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by 4everTs:
<strong>I didn't know why at the time,but it was satan tearing us apart</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Exactly... Satan is working overtime to tear your marriage apart. DON'T give up. Always remember that through faith, God will prevail over the powers of Satan. Prayer is very powerful. I was given a book by my pastor called "The Power of a Praying Husband" by Stormie Omartian. She also write the counter "The Power of a Praying Wife". Get ahold of a copy off the internet or bookstore. It will help strengthen your faith in God, and teaches how to pray for your spouse.
I have no doubt in my mind that my prayers are being answered. God performs miracles everyday... and He can save your marriage. Just don't expect it to happen overnite. God teaches us patience, forgiveness, and understanding. Continue to pray diligently, and through faith, you will see the spirit of God working in your husband. Put your marriage in God's hands and continue to pray for guidance.
A good website you should check out is
www.rejoiceministries.org. It's very inspirational.
It's my personal opinion and belief that "fasting" is unnecessary. It will make you weak at a time when you need to gather all of your stength to make it day by day. Fasting will also make your mind weak and difficult to concentrate. Once again, that is just a personal belief. Speak w/ your minister about it.
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by 4everTs:
<strong>...then I feel like the Bible is misleading, because the only reason God gives for divorce is adultery. No if's and's or buts. I know the Bible isn't misleading and I know he knows that, he is just refusing to accept it.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">The Bible is misleading at times... sometimes contradictary. But that is the role of your minister to interpret (for lack of a better word) the Word of God. Set up an appointment w/ your minister. I'm sure he will be happy to spend some time with you. That's what he is for... to help you with struggles such as this.
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by 4everTs:
<strong>I believe he has found someone else, it would explain all the mean, hateful,abussive things he has been saying to me.
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You may be right... but if it is true, it will eventually surface. But, you should read as much as you can on this MB website. It offers much insite on marriage and affairs. And continue to post here. You can learn much from the advice and opinions of others.
So, my advice to you now is to read... read... read what this MB website has to offer. I'm sure others that are much wiser than I will offer you advice as well. Just, don't give up.
Continue in your faith... you will become strong.
I hope it helps.
tjs
<small>[ September 03, 2002, 11:48 PM: Message edited by: thejohnsmith ]</small>