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Plan B/No Children/Any Success Stories?
#464032 09/26/02 04:34 PM
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Hi All,

Just curious. I have been in Plan B for three months with no contact with H. M 3 years. He is currently in an A OW/25 H 55. We have no children and from reading the posts here, it seems to be a hopeless position! Or am I missing something? Any Comments?

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Re: Plan B/No Children/Any Success Stories?
#464033 09/26/02 05:54 PM
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Just a Q relady, has your H filed for the D yet?
Re: Plan B/No Children/Any Success Stories?
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MTD,

No, he hasn't filed yet. There has been absolutely no contact for 3 months. I haven't contacted his family, friends or anyone else.

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#464035 09/27/02 08:13 PM
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if he hasn't filed for divorce then there is still some hope.

I also think that just because you don't have children doesn't mean there is no hope. It just means that Plan B is less likely to work.

So Plan A if possible.

If you can't contact your husband, I'm not sure what to do. Try calling the Harleys.
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#464036 09/28/02 11:59 PM
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We do not have children either. Have you counseled with the Harley's. The strongly recommend NOT to go to Plan B when there are no children involved.
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GC,

I had no choice but to go to Plan B, H left and I have had no contact at all. I suppose I could find him if I tried, but I'm not mentally ready to do that yet.

I'm just gaining my strength day by day and staying focused on me for a change.
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