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I have started Plan B for about 2wks now, although I did catch 2-3 phone calls he made which I kept brief. I am so miserable. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> This may b a silly question, but if there is a non-serious situation regarding my son, do i stick to Plan B or not? I am so new at this and it's driving me crazy, but I really need help. If you're interested my story is in "Resolving Conflict"
"Please help married seven years-sep 3 months"

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NO RESPONSES YET??? I am so emotionally drained, I don't know what to do. I am wondering why with the 3 month separation, 2 weeks of Plan B, and being much more cordial (Plan A?????) WHENEVER we did speak...Nothing is changing. I don't know if there is an A, I know nothing. I just know that I'm trying what I think is best (Plan B) and when we spoke by accident the other day, he treated me like an old "friend." Please help

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Maybe you should go to a plan A from a distance. You need to do about 6 months of pure plan A before going to plan B. Try reading going_crazy's threads on GQII on how she's successfully done this.

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Hi Luv,

Here is some information on plans A and B
If you would read it first, and then ask specific questions, we would be better able to help.

NSR's links to info about plan A and B

I notice that you didn't get quick responses when you first posted ( in the other fourm too). Fridays through Sunday nights are often slow, and we are in and out and you never know who will be here, don't worry if you don't get a response right away.

Hope this helps,

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Hi Still seeking,

I am on my way there right now. Thanx for the FYI as well. From now on I will try to stay in General questions. I hope to speak with you again. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />


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