Hi,
I have included my story at the bottom of the page. I have a question regarding this. My husband is currently staying in another state, therefore

(1) I do not know if he is having an A, but have all signs and "fog" talk that he is

(2) If he is I don't think he would tell the OW he is married. (He did this when he cheated before)

My question is if I am NOT exposing the affair or if the OW doesn't know that he's married, how can I effectively use Plan A? I haven't been having frequent contact, but am technically in Plan A.