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<BR>I talked to my H just a few minutes ago. My God, it sounded good to hear his voice!!!! And you can be proud of me, I did stick with Plan A. At least I think I did good. He's taking apprenticeship classes and we talked about them. And we talked about his health insurance. Not about the OW, like I usually do. I did tell him, though, that I loved him and that he could come home anytime he wanted. He said "I know". Not exactly what I would have liked to hear but at least it wasn't "So what?" I asked him to think about it and he said he would. I'll get to see him tomorrow. It's gonna be so hard not to jump on him and beg him to stay. I feel like tying him up somewhere in the basement!!!
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I'm proud of you. Keep up with the Plan A. You're doing good. I hope that he realizes very soon, the mistake that he is making by being with OW. That's good that you told him that you love him and that he can come home. You are showing him that your home is a safe place and that you love him unconditionally.
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That is good he said I know. He could have said worse.<P>When you see him take it from me do not push the subject. from my ecperience, this does not help. It could meke things worse. Just enjoy the time together. <P>GOOD LUCK<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>
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That is good he said I know. He could have said worse.<P>When you see him take it from me do not push the subject. from my ecperience, this does not help. It could meke things worse. Just enjoy the time together. <P>GOOD LUCK<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>
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Mitzi,<P>Pulling for you...hoping tomorrow goes so well it really gets him thinking... ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>Roll Me Away<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>
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I'm really looking forward to seeing him tomorrow. I'm already getting nervous and trying to decide what to wear. I want to look my best. I still get butterflies everytime I see him. He always looks great to me. <BR>I hope it doesn't take him too long to come home. I figure the sooner I can get him to come home, the easier it will be for us to work things out. Is that true?
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Brown,<BR>I'm going to try really hard not to push the subject tomorrow. I already tried that last weekend before I found MB and it only made him mad. <BR>Roll Me Away,<BR>I'm trying so hard. I hope it doesn't take long.<BR>No Trust,<BR>Thanks for being there for me the past few days. You don't realize how much you've helped.<BR>Love you guys!!!<BR>
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Mitzi,<BR>I know what you mean about the butterflies when I went in november to pick my H up at the bus stop I actually had to pull over and be sick I was so nervous.but the 20 days we spent with each other were well worth it.<BR>Lesa<P>------------------<BR>maybe someday<P>
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Mitzi....dress to kill tomorrow. Remember, no lovebusters. Don't mention OW...at least, not now until you get a commitment from him. Tell him that you love him. Plan A all the way. Remember...not to expect changes overnight....babysteps....I'm pulling for you....You can do it!
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Stick to Plan A wholeheartedly Mitzi. Good luck to you tomorrow - you'll do great.
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Stick to Plan A wholeheartedly Mitzi. Good luck to you tomorrow - you'll do great.
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Stick to Plan A wholeheartedly Mitzi. Good luck to you tomorrow - you'll do great.
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Best wishes to you Mitzi! Crossing my fingers for you.....
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Mitzi,<P>Plan-a, keep your expectations low. In fact don't have any expectations.<P>You won't be let down. Praying for you.<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>
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Mitzi,<P>Plan-a, keep your expectations low. In fact don't have any expectations.<P>You won't be let down. Praying for you.<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>
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I am so nervous, I can't sleep. I actually feel like I did when we were dating. I'm not even mad about where he is tonight. Sounds weird, huh? Oh my God! I haven't seen him since Sunday! I am NOT going to expect anything. As long as he talks to me in a civil way, I will have done a good job. It would be nice to hear a compliment, but I won't be disappointed if I don't. I'll just be thrilled to be spending time with him. I'm going to say a BIG prayer for strength and courage to do the right thing.<BR>
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