Nov 26th
After further discussions with my W, I found out that it was her that made the 1st move here back in August. It was a kiss that pushed this whole thing into where she is. I have implemented plan B at this point but she insists on still calling and showing up when its convenient for her. She has had the girls overnight only 3 times since for I forbid it. They do not need to be in that type of environment. Being the bad guy now is so not in my nature but I feel like I have to. I have started the proceedings for custody as well as a separation agreement at this point. I hate to drag her through what is about to happen to her but she has forced the issue. I still know that she has feelings for all of us and that she would like to come home some day. Should I wait before the courts set a date or should I go through with this? I know that the normal affair ends within 6 months but this is a bit different...or is it? Any advice would help.

Molsonexport01 ,

I tried to find your original story but couldn't. So I only have a few comments.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> After further discussions with my W, I found out that it was her that made the 1st move here back in August. It was a kiss that pushed this whole thing into where she is. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">It doesn't matter who made the first move. It takes two.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I have implemented plan B at this point...
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Again, I couldn't find your original story, But plan B is for when you are about out of gas and the WS has not broken off contact with the OP. A good plan A must also be in place before B.

Is this the case?