My H has been gone for 1 month now. All suspicions show that he is with someone else. He denies it and has denied it for 2 years. The lies keep coming even now that he is gone. He states he is tired of trying but he has just given up and I think he is tired of getting caught in lies and never wants to explain himself.

He now acts like nothing is wrong when he picks up the kids and such, he is still telling the kids he wants to come home. but that is such a crock. I have been very civil with him and bite my toung when I found out more lies and he is stitting there telling me he didn't recieve m;y calls because He had his phoneturned off and he fell asleep at 11:30?? Well, little did he know His mom came over to watch the kids so I could talk to him and find out what is going on. I got there at 11:00 and he was not there , I searched every bar, and called him but he was nowhere in site. I stayed there until 2:30am he was not home. He called the next morning and preceded to tell me he was alseep and had the phones turned off... I bit my toung and didn't say anything, I said are you lying????? he said yes I was a t the bar and he wasn't because I was there, it was the only bar open in the town.....Then I asked when he got home and he said he left the bar at 1:30... not.. I was there 4X that night and he wasn't then he said he couldn't drive so he parked on the side of the road and fell asleep..... I never told him I was there that night. It just pushed me into wow...... why do I even want this man back in my life/???? I really don't think I could forgive him for this.....

He also forged my name on our tax returns and cashed the check and took out a large amount of money from our account. I didn't tell him I know this............

I just found out he is going on a trip to cal,. to see one of his buddies.... must be nice to just leave your family with no excuse on why you are gone and just go out and have fun.... We have talked and he keeps saying he needs time.... All I wanted to say is S*** or get off the pot....
Each day he is gone the stronger I seem to get... I think I have come to the reality that he is not coming back, and if he did want to come back I cannot live with this man anymore...