My H had visitaion with the boys. We talked some about 30 to 45 minutes before they left. I told him that I was not happy with the complaint OW's father filed on me.( they say i have been calling her work and hanging up got proof it was not me the phone bill) I also said that I was not happy with the statement that they would pick up thier kids next week end and that the boys will be hers soon. He told me that he was sorry and that i did not have to worry about that anymore because he was moving out of her house that night. I asked him where he was going to go and he said that he did not know I told him that he can live with us( the boys and I are living with my parents we were eveicted out of our house when he left we were 1000 dolaars behind in rent that I did not know about.) I think that he is worried about my father my dad is pretty pissed off but whose parents woud not be. To let you know I am 26 and H is 27 we are high school sweethearts. He said that he would think about it. I alos told him that i love him very much and that if the D goes through that in my heart he will always be my H till the day that I die. I told him that we have four boys and I belive that what we had before things got rough( it started in the end of June both being tired and nit picking at each other he worked two jobs I took care of everything at home so no sleep picking at each other for the little things and then not haveing the time together sex was great he said that <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> )is well worth the rocky road that we will go down to restore our marriage. He said that his thanks giving sucked I told him that our was ok but that we missed him very much it was not the same. I told him that everyone misses him including my parents and yes they are mad but that they are also hurting to that they are feeling a loss of a son and friend. There was many times that he started to cry.
He was wearing his ring but it was not his original one. He lost his in August he sdaid but when he moved out he had one on saying that he found it on the ground and just puit it on. When he brought he boys back he did not have it on said he just took it off he was also out of OW house. So lodt his found one while living with OW and now he left he took it off should that mean anything??? He lost his job again has bounced checks and no car. He is staying at a friends houe while his cloths are at his mothers. I asked him when he brought the boys home and notice the ring was gone I said it really over isn't it? He said Iam not saying that gave the boys kisses and said he will tlak to me latter.
I have been doing plan A I lost weight and still losing gone down 2 dress sizes since he left his mother said that she noticed i lost quit a bit of weight <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> and I am loving myself and taking care of my boys. I tell H that I love him everytinme that i see him and listen to him when he talks to me. I have also done plan B no contact with him for four weeks till his visitaion. Except to call and let him know that our 20 month old got staples in the head( bad fall hit the fire place thought he was supperman) he never got the message

So what should I do is there better hope anyone been here before? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />