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Hey I have a question...
My husband refuses to leave school, however the OW also attends this same school giving him full access to seeing her everyday. I am not happy at all and think he is being unreasonable to think that I will ever trust him again. Should I leave until he has decided to either leave school for the benefit of his marriage. Please someone tell tell me what I should do?
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madamnk
You H will need to earn your trust again. In my case, I feel I can't trust anyone again, but of all the people in the world I still feel safest with my W. Strange feelings perhaps but there it is.
Plan B is to protect yourself from more harm and to protect your love for WS.
If both of you can get counselling with Steve, Jennifer or a MC that uses MB principles it will help a lot.
Unfortunately it will do very little good to threaten WS that he must stop seeing OP. He must make that decision himself. Do as good a Plan A for as long as you can. Get plenty of exercise and look after yourself. Go to your Doctor if you get very low.
You will know instinctively if you are ready for Plan B. But keep posting and learning as much about MB as possible. You are not alone.
NS
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