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Long story short, I am already divorced, and I am a BS.

According my WS, there was no infidelity during the marriage, but she began dating shortly after the divorce was final.

Others on this board have recommended I start Plan A. While I agree it can't hurt, is Plan A & Plan B effective in this situation?

FYI, we have minimal contact with each other since we have a four y.o. son. We will soon begin counseling to help our son adjust to the divorce.

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Plan A ... if you want to recontruct your marriage...
...otherwise (if you've accepted the divorce)... then Plan B.

Both are intended to make you a better person!

Plan B is to allow for a 'controlled' separation...
...and allow your 'marital' love to die.
...a desirable goal... to avoid the confusion of "being married' or 'not being married'.

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Jim/NSR


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