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#465351 03/27/03 09:42 PM
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WHAT DO YOU DO W/ THE WH WHEN YOU POUR YOUR HEART TO THEM AND THEY TELL YOU THEY CARE FOR YOU AND YOUR CHILD, BUT NEED TO DO THINGS FOR THEM SELVES, EXP STAYING W/ OW?
THAY IS WANT HE TOLD ME. HE WAS INTERESTED IN MY DOINGS LAST WEEK BECAUSE HE FOUND MY NEW UNDERWARE IN THE LAUNDRY WANTED TO KNOW IF I WAS SEEING ANYONE. I SAID NO. I KNOW WHEN THEY ARE IN THE AFFAIR THEY ARE SELVISH, WHAT ARE SOME TIPS TO HELP WITH THE COPING.....
I NEED/WANT TO WORK THIS OUT BUT HE SAYS THAT "THINGS ARE DIFFERENT NOW, AND CAN'T DO THIS" I KNOW BRUSH IT OFF!! GO ON LIVING, IT IS HARD W/ A CHILD IN YOUR HANDS THAT LOOKS FOR DADDY, AND IS TO YOUNG TO UNDERSTAND WHY. HE IS ONLY 19 MO OLD. I'M LONLEY, SAD, MY B-DAY IS NEXT WEEK. I FEEL FOOLISH FOR WANTING HIM AND MY LIFE BACK.
BUT WHAT TO DO????? NOW...

#465352 03/28/03 09:44 AM
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I'm not sure whether or not the two of you still live together, but it sounds like you need to implement Plan A which means that you work to improve your ability to meet his basic emotional needs and reduce/eliminate your love busters. Start reading everything under Basic Concepts on this website. That will give you a good starting place.


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