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I have been in Plan B for a week and a half.
I thought by now, my H would really be re-thinking life. So far, he is showing no signs of change, or wanting to come home.

He says life wife me would be great, a great marriage, but, there is her.

Does anyone have any insight?
How long does it take them to realize, IF they realize?

Thanks,
K

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KEB1205,

Plan B is for you to preserve the little love left for H if he is back. Also is for you to get ready to move on w/o guilt if he is not back.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><strong>He says life wife me would be great, a great marriage, but, there is her.</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Yeap, it depends on how good she is fillin the ENs that you vacated by plan B. It depends on if they could avoid LB each other.

If OW is skillfull fillin H's ENs that you vacated and no LB .... H won't be back to you, ever.

-rh-


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