I started plan B about 2 weeks ago, just before easter. My other 1/2 had left me in January to "figure things out" however that seemed to include dating someone soon after. I tried plan A with some results but she ended up telling me to move on and that it was over.
Within days of plan B, she started calling telling me that I am causing her pain, why won't I talk, she was selfish in leaving but at that time she felt she had too. etc... She called 3 times on Easter and again a week later. I told her that I was trying to move on which is what she wanted and to leave me alone. Also it should be known that I ran into a female friend I had known for awhile and one of her friends saw us together which I'm sure she knows. She also found out that I put a purchase offer in on a house contingent upon ours selling, she wants our sold.
Anyway, a friend of hers contacted me and told me that my other 1/2 was now depressed about all of this, having serious thoughts and had told the other guys she didn't want to see him for a few days because she had to think. Her friend suggested I call her with one last expression of my love and ask that we work things out. I debated about it but my emotions got the best of me and I called, we talked for 2 hours and there was emotion on both sides. However she said that she is still not ready and may never be. The next day I saw her back with this guy in his car.
I obviously blew it. She is having her cake and eat it too. Did I enable her to feel safe to see this guy again, letting her know I am still there for her? What should I do now? Resume plan B is my thought. Any thoughts or ideas? Thanks.
