i had a wonderful mothers day my h bought me a bueatiful, swarvoski eagle, then he surprised me with dinner at a fancy restaurant were my daughter and her boyfrien met us and my 13 yr. old son. he has started saying i love you after we talk on the phone he calls me about 3-times a day. but yet if i suggest do you want to go say to the movies or anything he'll never say yes just will see.i don't know what to make of this. i am afraid to get my hopes up. we still go to marriage counsiling once a week. he has had no contact with o/w for 9-days now and i do check still! but he says nothing has changed he feels the same but his stomach is no so upset. is this the fog? is he maybe comming out of the fog a little bit? is this recovery? i'm still confused.