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My Spouse is in an affair and I am trying to stay and wait out the death. Problem is he is the major bread winner and He is taking out money from our finances that I don't believe we can afford. I can put my income in a separate acct that I started but how do I stop his money from being depleated. We are approximately 2 mo into this whole thing. They have been found out at work.
I am becoming concerned that we won't be able to pay the bills soon. What can I do to take away the financing of this affair and ruin of our lives and credit. Yes we have kids and the finances that go with, house pet etc...
<small>[ May 30, 2003, 07:56 AM: Message edited by: magna2 ]</small>
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How about talking with him about splitting the bills and splitting the finances someway. He's getting ready to feel some consequences, and to keep you from feeling them too. You can work out a contract, or have a legal document (I think there are examples of separation docs on the net). Maybe take it to his work to have part of his check automatically deducted. He is living recklessly and selfishly and spending money is part of it.
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