I have been married for 2 years, living together for 5. We met in jr high and dated until sr high( 2 years). After experiencing other relationship we both decided to give it another shot, and here we are.

4 months ago my W and I had a three some with one of her new friends. This was the first time either of us has done this, so it was exciting @ first. We did this 2 times over the next 2 weeks. The following week I found them together in a compromising position. I was devistated, my first reaction was to get very angry and call names. Over time my W stopped comming home so she could hang out with her new "Friend".

About a month ago I asked my W to stop seeing her new friend and she said no. So I asked her to decide between her marriage or her friendship( well she went with the friendship).

After finding this website I realize everything I did was wrong, her lovebank was close to empty before the friend came into the picture, and I took it all away by calling her names. Her friend has done nothing but fill her bank. I gave her a choice, come back home or I am going to leave. After 3 weeks I have found I cant leave, it hurts way to much....she is the woman I love completely.

Any ideas on how I should try to work this out ?

Uhhhhh............I would NEVER, EVER share my woman with another man or woman. Most 3somes end relationships from what I have heard also. The friend was new to her and the sex was new also. Hmmmmmm.......some mistakes ya cant take back. Good Luck. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />