Well, <BR> Here it is. 31 Dec, 1999. The W is going to work in a bar on New Years Eve. All of this trouble started in one only a couple of months ago. She told me this morning that all she wanted to do was work to make alot of money to get bills payed off. She said that if anyone comes on to her she will just tell them that she is married. Well, I did not say it but, that is what she told the other guy months ago and look what happened. She even bought a new skirt last night when we went shopping. It is not short but it does make her look sexy. <BR> She asked me why don't I trust her!!! Boy, what a thing to say!!! I told her to put herself in my shoes. Would she trust me. She said no. The bar closes at 2 in the morning. I was so wanting to spend ringing in the new year with her, but she will be out working. In a bar no less. I am now wondering if it was such a good idea to say yes to her working in a bar and on new years eve night. What do ya'll think?<P>------------------<BR>DP

Go to the bar!!

Can't. Have two kids that have to be watched.<P>------------------<BR>DP

Get a sitter,<BR>or call a neighbor and BE AT THE BAR tonight.<P>I worked in a restaurant 20+ years ago - swing shift. H used to come in and visit and it would make my evening. <P>Find a way to be at the bar with your wife tonight, and plan something special for her. New Years Eve is supposed to be a romantic night, make it fun and YOURS, even if she has to work.<P>Where there is a will, there is a way.<BR>tnt