I have posted here a couple of times and I have a question for everyone. My WH left me about 9 months ago and our divorce was final in February. We have a 1-year-old little girl together. He left for an older woman that he has been living with ever since. We were together for 11 years and I never lost my love for him and begged him to stay (which I know I shouldn't have done at the time) but he said he was passionately in love with the OW. I really don't understand how he left me and our little girl who he hadn't even bonded with. Anyways, I have prayed for him to wake up out of the fog...but maybe he is truly happy with his ow. I am a Christian woman and I truly wanted this relationship to work so we could raise our daughter in a good, Christian home but he was having no part of it. Anyways, do you think they ever come back around?? I have moved on and don't dwell on what could have been with us but I would still take him back with open arms. Is that wrong of me? Your advice would be really appreciated. Ya'll have been a big help to me during all of this.
Thanks, Becky

I don't have any words of wisdom for you, but I just wanted to say my prayers are with you. I am new to this site and just posted my first topic a couple of days ago. I know how important it is not to feel so alone.

Stay strong and look out for you and your precious daughter.

Good Luck!

Dear Becky,

In D/Dv board probably you would get better advice. I am Dv and I would not take my ExW back ... it is harden of the her heart that I could not take it. I have 2 D and I have to move on and tell them that I would not tolerate them if they ever have A. Your little D need male figure but it doesn't mean it is your H.

I don't know what is wrong with you ... I suggest you get Self Matter by Dr. Phil and do the companion book. It helps you to look inside.

-rh-