Well,<P>I did a pre-disclosure plan A, and it was working. Then I had more problems and stress in our house with stepdaughters, drugs, etc.... some domestic violence, and I put my predisclosure plan A on hold and totally lost it.... We went to marriage counseling and that didn't work. Non-christian psychologist.<P>In early December, there was partial disclosure. Joined the power of a praying wife, and I guess he was moved to try and start being honest. I didn't react was the grace I should have... <P>Deep depression, and finally the stepdaughters left for CA and it is giving me a much needed break. Have started plan A again, because I still don't feel I have a commitment from my husband towards Basic Concepts, but I am still praying and feeling stronger about trying again.<P>I did an awful lot of praying through this ordeal, I must have called the 700 club several times, went to see the pastor, and many friends here at marriage builders held me up in prayer to get me through. I am sure that is why I am still alive and ticking.<P>I was posting as Mrs. Mush 4 brains, because my husband's daughter was reading my posts, and it was evident that my husband wanted a divorce and custody of our house and child at the same time.... I felt I was being isolated by not being able to express myself, so I changed my name. It was the toughest time from October until Christmas Day. <P>There is a season for everything, and I am thanking God that this is my season of harvest! <P>God bless you, and I'm glad you aren't leaving!!!<BR>TNT<BR>
