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my H.says he feels the same he is still confused.has had n/c with o/w for 8 weeks. but still looking for an apt to move out and figure everything out. he wants to see if he misses his family if he leaves us. I don't beleive that i think he wants to see o/w. he has looked at 2 places in the last month turned both down. one was perfect.I am so confused he is still an alien is this normal at 8-weeks. he says he loves me but isn't in love with me. i am filling all his e/n's. i am thinking about making him leave plan B even though there is n/c so he says i don't know if i really beleive that either i think i am afraid to trust him. he swears there is no contact and i can't find any evidence. before i found evidence everywhere. i hate this. de
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dekicks,
To help your sanity ...
1. When in doubt do nothing (change nothing)
2. When no fact assume the worst
Fillin ENs & Avoid LB as long as you can then your withdrew it all at once w/ plan B.
IMVHO, contact is still there or there wasn't any closure with OW (He should written NC letter to OW). Either way plan B is a valid option. Remember ... in-love feeling could come back as long as WS lets you. Usually when WS rejects/no reaction BS's attempt to fillin ENs, WS gets it somewhere else.
-rh-
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