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How 2 ?
#466951 07/25/03 11:05 PM
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I need to tell him I know but its to hard. He's out right now and he's probably with her or talking on that stupid cell phone. I hate wondering if he's with her. It makes me feel like I care and all I want to do right now is HATE him. When I tell him that I know he's only going to lie to me. I only have some letters she emailed him as proof but I dont think its enough because he'll have a good lie for that. I want to confront her first or should I? I don't know. I cant think straight right now. It's only been two days since I found all this out. Do I sound crazy? I need to know whats going on. It's driving me crazy!
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Hi, I understand what you're going through. Did what you're doing. Sounds like you're on the diving tower at the local swimming pool, you know you have to jump, and you keep saying "one, two, three" and "Okay, next time I'll jump!"

I'm not saying you won't do it. You'll confront when you're ready. Take your time, gather evidence, and talk to us on MB. Of course he'll deny it. All the cheaters do.

Question: Do you want to save your marriage? Or do you want to endure a slow psychic death? Letting a cheating spouse Gaslight you will kill your spirit. Having a plan (read Plan A, Plan B) and having a timetable will keep you sane.
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If it's something thats been going on for a while I don't think I can. The tought of H and OW is killing me. If he didn't respect our marriage then why would he now? I have so much to think about. I just want my H to tell the truth! I need to know. It's going to drive me insane!

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