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Just wondering if anyone has success with Plan B and how the aftermath went. R U glad you did it?
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Well, I have been in Plan B for a short time (17days) with some small breaks in it unfortunately.
As far as Plan B, it has been very helpful in shielding me from the WW's indecision. It has also been helpful in forcing her to deal with the reality of things. The breaks in Plan B have been tough set backs for me because they mess up my train of thought and direction I've been headed in bettering myself.
I'll let you know how it goes.
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Joined: Aug 1999
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Go read MortarMan's posts. All of them and you will see what plan B is all about. It will take you awhile to read it all but do it. He posts in Recovery and GQ. So get his # and then do a search in GQ and Recovery.
JL
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i am very glad i used plan B my H. was sitting on the fence/ having his cake and eating it too. i figured he was still having contact with o/w. i was doing all the right things, plan A-ing all the way. counseling, no love busting. the whole deal. well i put a voice activated recorder under the seat of his car.I proved he was talking to her. I kicked him out and gave him a plan B letter but he kept calling me and comming around so i gave him a plan B letter again. I kicked him out on saturday evening july 19th he came back july 27th it took one week. i guess i am very lucky it could have been longer. e/a-12/02 p/a-01/03 d-day-04/03. married 28 yrs. together 32 yrs. we are still going to counseling. i am so grateful for this web-site. good luck to you! de
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I don't know what do you mean by success ... My ExW put NC on me and under SH's advice I went along and put plan B in place. 6 months later my love for my ExW was completely drained, I choose to end it (change of status) even my ExW wants to drag it.
Look around, YWM in this board just get her BF after plan B.
No gurantee on plan B to slavage your M but one thing for sure it would slavage yourself.
-rh-
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