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My WS has already broken off all contact with me about a week and a half ago. It would be pointless to send a Plan B letter now and if you could call what we did a Plan A, it went badly. So I sent this instead. It was hand written on black paper in white ink. From this point on, I will go on with my life and leave the rest to God. ------------------------------------------ </font> - <font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Terry,
I have given this letter much thought. I could have brought up many happy memories, but you know them as well as I. This is really all I want to say:
- I Love You – I always have since the first day I saw you, and I always will, in good times, bad times, no matter what. At first I was just “In Love” with you, then over the years true love grew. It has sustained us through many outside stresses and personal tragedy. From this love came a wonderful child and the sacrifices that go along. We have a Sacred Union. This is larger than us.
- It’s Not Working – You are leaning on Glenn for your needs. This hurts me very much and I have reacted negatively. I have not been the best I can be for you.
- It Can Work – When the fog lifts and you free yourself, I will be here for you. We are imperfect human beings. There are issues to deal with but we all have them until we breathe no more. My health has improved and I am emotionally, mentally and physically stronger. I want to meet all your desires and needs. I want you to prosper and be happy.
- I Really Do Love You Terry – You will be welcomed with open arms, compassion and an open heart.
For All Time,
Monty
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Monty, Actually this is a pretty good Plan B letter. The only thing it lacks is the desire for no contact until the affair is resolved. I wish you had included that, but I won't quibble. In every other respect this is an excellent letter with the exception of leaving you a bit too vulnerable. I will add my prayers to yours that God guides your wife back into your arms. I wish you the best. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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