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Plan B...need help getting started
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Hi, this is the first time I have posted in the section. My fwh just told me (one year post dday) that he still has feelings for the ow. I am desperate because he feels like there must be nothing that can be done. He said he loves me and our life together, but when he is away from me all he thinks about is the ow. He has maintained NC and agrees to continue until we make a decision about divorce (however, the still work together). Anyway, someone in another section suggested Plan B. There isn't much on this website about it. Basically, it is a separation, right? What is the 'letter' about? Any advice or tips on Plan B. I will continue to look for more info as well.
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Daisy,

I'm going to give you a link to another thread in this section that has some great Plan B information. Click here and read through the whole thread clicking on the links available. There is a wealth of information there.

Good Luck. Ask questions if you need to. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

<small>[ August 04, 2003, 10:05 PM: Message edited by: star*fish ]</small>
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I've tried giving you a link a couple of times....and it's just not working. Go to SusanBT's thread "What to include in a Plan B Letter"....it's right on this page. It has tons of links and information in it that will help you. Good luck. If you have questions....just ask. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

<small>[ August 04, 2003, 10:10 PM: Message edited by: star*fish ]</small>

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