Hello all, haven't been posting much lately. My realtionship with God is getting better everyday. I see little signs here and there that he is working on my wife too. Between God and plan B, so much has been lifted from me that I am pretty much back to normal, life goes on. The arm/neck/shoulder problem I have/had turned out to be a neck and disc problem. I was to go in for a cortizone shot mid august, but now that much of the depression or stress has been lifted from me I cancelled it and It is sore sometimes, but I have over 80% functionality back. I really do not want a show or surgery so I will wait till it is unbearable. My wife had left the marriage dissolution questionaire for me to fill out, I have filled my part out, but never gave it back. She hasn't mentioned it since. I expect to be served someday and if so, ok I guess. Maybe she won't, only God knows. I am slowly packing her things up in case it comes to the big D and have accepted that as a good possible outcome. If it happens I am prepared, if not things will only be better. Keep your faith in the Lord and love him first. Thanks for the great site and all the help. I should be posting more now that summer is coming to an end (depressing isn't it).

Tim

Tim Foster,

It is good Fall season ... come'on !. It is beautiful back east and georgeous over here. Take a drive w/ your bike before snow start falling down and too cold to ride <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> .

I start taking carpentry class at the local high school ... My 2 D is not the only one back to school <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> .

-rh-

Redhat, I actually like fall myself. Last weekend when we were camping though, the signs of an early winter are showing. Leaves are turning and dropping already from some trees (it was still the end of august), we seen ducks and geese heading south, blackbirds in big groups migrating or whatever they do. Hopefully it was just because it was a cool weekend, but the signs are usually right. Last year it turned cold here in Minnesota in early october. We usually give up camping/fishing when the high's for the day are 50 or less. But until we have had the first killing frost we have time left. Keep praying my friends, God is great.

Tim

Great morning all. I have surrendered to God. I have lost all feelings for my wife, she has made some tough decisions and is moving on with her life. I can accept that and forgive her for what she has/is doing. I wish her well and pray for her in her decision because this man she has chosen has a real bad track record. God has blessed me with a christian woman who is a prophetic, and we are working on our relationship.

Tim :
Do I understand you correctly?
You are not yet divorced and you are already seeing another woman?

Are we to presume that you have lost interest in working on your marriage?

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">"God has blessed me with a christian woman who is a prophetic, and we are working on our relationship."</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Whoa! Tim are you serious? If this woman is worth it, why can't you wait until AFTER your divorce is finalized before pursuing a relationship with her FREE of adultery on your part (you are afterall still married to your W you know). I'm not saying you don't have a right to happiness but remember that rebound relationships don't have a good track history of lasting very long. Please hold off on getting more deeply involved with this OW until your situation is resolved one way or another.

Tim, How could you say it's all in God's Hands when you are committing adultry. If this is a good Christian woman as you say, then she would not be dating a married man and a married man is what you are. So pleas if you really want God's help then put this woman aside until it's over for good. A good christian woman would not get invoved with a married man unless you lied to her. After 26 years and they were glourious as you say then you need more time and so does your wife.

Tim, How could you say it's all in God's Hands when you are committing adultry. If this is a good Christian woman as you say, then she would not be dating a married man and a married man is what you are. So pleas if you really want God's help then put this woman aside until it's over for good. A good christian woman would not get invoved with a married man unless you lied to her. After 26 years and they were glourious as you say then you need more time and so does your wife.

Tim Foster,

Reread your post ... how many Foggese senteneces come out of you.

If you surrender to God like rainman point out ... you seek HIM and put Him first.

God doesn't bless sin, this A is not from Him but the fruit of your own desire.

Your new R is based on infidelity.

Tim ... let this woman know that you need to take step back and put NC until you are done with your Dv. What if by the garce of God your W come back crawling and begging and willing to do whatever it takes to patch M ?.

2x4 -rh-

Tim - I would strongly suggest you heed the advice of these people as they are right. This woman is a false prophetess if she thinks this is to be justified. Please tread very carefully here as we don't want to see you hurt anymore. You are still legally and morally married. That is your reality, not the spriritual fog you are in now. You are entering into dangerous territory and we counsel you, out of love and concern, to get out of this. We are praying for you. God bless!