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I wrote a few days ago an explained my situation. I just recently found out that my husband was having an affair that I thought ended a 8 months ago. He says he is finished living a double life and that he wants us to work on our marriage. He wants me to do my part give him hope also. I want to do this and now am in the phase of trying to move on. I am so scared and am afraid he is still in contact with the ow. I want to believe in him and stop reliving all the pain from the past. I have know way of knowing if he is still in contact with the ow except for him saying he doesnt want the heart ache anymore. What do I do. Do I never bring it up again. I cant keep from living in this fear.
<small>[ September 08, 2003, 03:14 PM: Message edited by: girlfive ]</small>
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girlfive,
If he want to work on M he should do NC w/ OW and go to conseling. I would suggest you to read "How A should end" on Q&A section. If you could afford it call MB conseling center and schedule one. Have you read SAA & HNHN ? Get it and give it to him to read too.
Don't only listen to his words you have to match it with actions. Keep posting,
-rh-
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