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I need some advice.... My H gives me so much information that it is driving me insane... He is on a Business trip like I had wrote in an earlier post... He called me last night and let me know all the stuff he had been doing... Went on a walk with OW, went out to eat dinner with OW, Worked on homework for training with OW....I know I asked him for complete honesty, but this is driving me crazy...The green eyed monster in me is creeping out. Does any one have any advice??? Help!!!<P>------------------<BR>
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Hmmm, is he over-compensating? Telling you lots of info to waylay your suspicions?<BR>Perhaps he can sense your suspicions and is giving you a plausible story. I would question him about the things he hasn't told you. What he is telling you may be the truth, but he may not be telling you everything. Ask him how he feels about the OW. Ask him if he has kissed her. Just to gauge his response.<P>On the other hand, this may all be innocent and he is trying to reassure you.<P>I've been no help at all, I'm afraid.
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I often wonder myself if he is over compensating. I have asked him if he has kissed her, and he said "NO" that was a while back though. When he told me they went for a walk, I said, "HMM" he goes it's not like we were holding hands or anything. I thought to myself, I wasn't even thinking that! I told him that I just have a hard time picturing my H taking walks or even being that close to another women. What a tangled web we weave!! At least I do! Thanks for the post...<P>------------------<BR>
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Oh, Marilyn, that statement of his about not holding hands or anything would have me wondering too. He may be rationalizing his feelings for the OW by keeping you informed. Dig deeper... not about activities, but about his feelings. I do hope for you that nothing is going on. My thoughts are with you.
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I know it has me freaked out! I would of never dreamed that he would say that! I just don't know how to go about it. He tells me that nothing is going on, and never will. But some of the signals I am receiving say differently! I am going to be working with this Women for the next 90 days. I ask myself why would my H put me in that situation if he had something to hide. I feel like continually bring up the situation might push him in her direction, but then If I don't then....I know she just got out of a long term relationship... What signals is she receiving from him innocent or not! I am in a real pickle! Thank you for caring...<BR>God Bless.<P>------------------<BR>
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