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I just started the very terrifying exposure aspect of Plan A. I just sent emails to his family in the city we live and told them my side of things. I will be calling his work tomorrow (they work at the same place) and will be telling them, by giving whoever answers a message to give the OT to stop seeing my husband!!!!!! It will spread like wildfire. I'm really scared, I might be living on a park bench tomorrow night lol. I have to stop letting it fester though, the ONLY person he talks to about his affair and our relationship is the OT! Yeah! I'm sure she's giving REALLY good advice! Anyway please cross your fingers for me and wish me luck, this is going to get ugly 
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Silo,
Your in my thoughts and prayers. This, besides fnding out about the A is probably one of the hardest times.
Please keep posting
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I made the mistake of telling him last night that I was going to do that and he flipped. I'm glad that I told him though because in his present state of mind I think he would have kicked me out if I had done that. Since I'm financially dependant on him right now I need to be careful about doing things that will make him furious, because in his present state of mind I don't think he would hesitate to do something very cruel. It's a matter of choosing between saving my marriage vs. my safety/life.
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sio,
I made a long post to you on cerri's thread in JFO. Stop worrying about how furious he will be. He can't kick you out of your own house, and believe me....his anger about this will dissipate quickly. He puts you on the defensive, when it is he that is causing his problems. If you want the affair to end...exposure is a necessary step. Willard Harley says "put it on the evening news!!!" and cerri does too.
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