My W finally ended the A last week. She says she feels really good about it and that it has allowed her more time to work on her self. I have heard this all via a mutual friend. She wont talk to me now either.
I am working so hard on myself and trying to overcome some of the issues I have, so that when/if we ever have any time together I can be capable of filling her EN's and not overwhelm her by trying to get her back RIGHT NOW. I feel like, now that Om is gone, I can pace myself better. I could take things slower now. The problem is that she doesn't want to meet. We just went a week of NC and now she wants another 2 weeks of NC. That will be 3 weeks total.
My friends counselor says that that is too long apart. What do you all think? How can I get the opportunity for her to see all my work I have been putting into myself is we never see each other? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />