I have been here before in May, I plan A'd he did come back begging to work things out, I stayed, we went to counseling and both enjoyed it problem is we didnt continue it and things went back to the way they were. Things got bad again with job loses, his bipolar and my depression, anyway he finally made the choice it was over at the therapist we went back to for the first time. She recommended I have no contact with him. Then a found out 2 days later he was talking with another girl from work and that had been going on before he ended it. So I gave him sevral days with him staying at his moms to change his mind before I moved. He didnt so now I am in VA and he is in AZ, we talked several times and saw each other before I left we talked about getting ourselves together and possibly working on working on us.

Here is the thing, I know he is still talking to her and I think he plans to go to a concert with her this Friday. She is married and has a young son as well. He sayd their relationship isn't like that like and yada yada. I told him last night that if he was still seeing her or talking to her that I couldn't continue anything with him and got mad and hung up. Then calls me back and said he was sorry and this and that. I need help should I totally go to plan B?? If so, then I guess there are no chances of us reconciling and how do we do plan A from long distance or should I just go straight to plan B?