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#469046 11/11/03 02:16 AM
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I thought all was going well. She had been talking recovery. Tonight was the first night in her new house. She said, if I didn't trust her, I could come down.

She called tonight @ 9:15. I asked if I could call her later she said yes. I waited until 9:45 she said she was cold and there was a draft in the house. She said she was blowing out her candles and going to bed.

I had someone ride by from time to time. Her car was there at 11:00 but it was gone at 12:30 I called and got no answer. She was still gone at 01:30.

I rode to the house of suspected OM. But I didn't see her car. I called both numbers that she had been calling recently and got voice mail on both.

She is off tomorrow due to the Veterans Day. I know she will be coming to get more of her belongings.

Do I confront her with this, what do I say. Is now the time to move to plan B or do I wait until she is showing more uncertainty. If she was with him last night/this morning, and I close this door, should I wait a couple of days? What should I expect her reponse to be?

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