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If BS is recieving hesitancy and resistance from WS to cease C even by phone should this contact be seen as a continuance of the A, especially if a NC letter has not been sent?
Also should the BS still make plans to C Other BS.
If the OP seems to be laying low on C WS, but the WS has previously promised no more contact to only break their promise, but hasn't given a NC letter and isn't agreeing to terms for recovery should the BS continue to try to end the A by C family, what have you? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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Morning Free,
ANY contact in any form is a continuance of the A, it has to be a clean cut from the other party and no contact what-so-ever before it is considered no contact. Putting the A in the open is also part of plan A, if this has not been done the secrecy of the A is still intact.
Have your WS draw up the letter of NC with you present and make sure it is delivered.
Good luck, Take care
DaRookie
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freetobe,
For recovery this must happen:
1. NC w/ OW 2. Ammends you by open and honest about time, $ and any attempt C from OW. 3. Pass the withdrawal stage 4. Working on R in M
Otherwise you are still in plan A <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> .
-rh-
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ANY contact is continuing of the A.
Tell the OP's spouse in any case - you'd want to know, wouldn't you? <small>[ December 04, 2003, 03:41 PM: Message edited by: johnh39 ]</small>
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