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men betrayed
#469782 12/13/03 10:54 AM
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men are are you handling when you foun out ws had affair. i ask this because me and my wife are not living togehter and iam doing plam A. and it is very hard wife will not talk to me at all she seems to be brainwashed by other om she will not tell me about the affair but she having with coworker. how do i get her to try to work it out. she know that she has hurt me that why she will not tell anything i think she is mad at herself that i found out. what are you men doing to cope with being the bs. iam very lonely that am not with wife and kids. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />
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#469783 12/13/03 12:12 PM
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I know exactly how you feel, my wife of 14 years left me on our Aniv. in June, moved out July 3 and filed for the big D 11-25 and has not told me. my stoy is under general Question wife left please help. The one thing that help's me is a line from the movie Shawshank Redemption,
Andy told Red this before he broke out.

It comes down to this "Get busy living or get busy dieing" I have to tell myself at leat 3 times per hour.

My wife left with the children, the other guy.
my Ex best friend of 20 + years. I also think
to myself, if they are happy with what they done then I will be also, I will not let them get the
last laugh, best of me or anything else. ALWAYS
think you have won. when doubt comes in your mind you have LOST. dont be a loser..
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#469784 12/13/03 12:44 PM
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Hi Gentelmen,
I hope that my reply will not offend being that I am not a man. However both of you have raised a concern about WS leaving without telling you anything. Maybe these pages can give you insight. Very sorry to hear about WS leaving.
Link below:
"But you promised"
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8502_fft.html

"How to know if your spouse? is in love? with you?"
http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8506_fft.html
Re: men betrayed
#469785 12/14/03 01:51 AM
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eemd,

What was the last thing that she say about R ?. What was her complaint about you in M ?.
What plan A means to you ?

I will be very late to check back on your post so hang in there.

-rh-

<small>[ December 13, 2003, 12:51 PM: Message edited by: redhat ]</small>

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