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Hi all. I've been in Plan B for ten weeks today. I'm loving every minute of it. I now have my life back. H did not contact me for Thanksgiving, and I don't expect to hear from him for Christmas.
The best part of Plan B is that you can really look at whole marriage without being emotionally attached. Also once WS is gone, there is no one to blame for what is happening in your life. Now I have to take total responsibility for me. It is really freeing.
I have gotten over hurt and anger. Now I realize that I did make some mistakes, but need to learn from them and move on. I hope that anyone considering Plan B will go ahead with it. Everything in my life has been better and I am very thankful that I found this site.
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*hugs* Believer I'm glad you are still doing well in Plan B, it seems to get easier as time goes by doesn't it? I'm not quite where you're at yet, I still have fairly frequent bouts of anger and sadness but it seems to be becoming less and less frequent. I hope you and your family have a wonderful Christmas! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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Sio - Yep - It does get easier and easier. And as time goes by I realize that he is not the whole reason for my being. Now I am on my own and doing fine. It is such a relief after the rollercoaster ride. Hope you get to this point soon.
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