You guys were right. He did it again. The fourth lie.

This is IT. I told him i am not and never ever taking him back unless he is completely ready to get over his addiction!!

He is no longer staying with me. He is staying with his brother. I tried Plan B not talking to him or seeing him. It lasted one week. Then tonight i broke the silence and saw him. He is still not ready to give her up but at least things felt okay. He feels guilty about the whole affair and even contemplating seeing a priest. He doesn't know what to do. I am still not taking him back because he still refuse to tell me who OW is. There are signs he is not over the addiction.

I am not sure how to move from here. Do keep the silent treatment or not? I don't know what is right or wrong to do now? Please give me some advice.

In our conversation he admitted that during the whole one week, he was not completely happy with his life although he had contact with OW. He kept saying why God gave this test to him. Is it fated..etc.

I kept telling him go back to God.

How do i treat him from now onwards?

hi. sorry i dont have any advice. but i wanted to encourage you that it is a really good thing that your H is expressing guilt. alot of them dont. maybe pray that his wordly sorrow will become godly sorrow. wordly sorrow just feels sorry (mostly for oneself) wheras godly sorrow actually repents. God bless!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />