Hi and Happy New Year,<BR>I've been officially in Plan A for about 6-8 weeks now, and overall I think things have been going pretty well until this week. Up until Christmas my H had been very loving and affectionate. He spent the night Christmas Eve and we made love under the Christmas tree!<P>However, this week he suddenly stopped being affectionate and seemed to have a very bad attitude. It was almost as if he was trying to provoke a fight with me. My theory is that now that the holidays are over he is going to file for divorce. But, since things have been going so well between us, he needs some sort of justification to do it. I just hope and pray that I can be patient and take the cr@p that he dishes out to me. I think the only thing that could probably set me off would be if he takes our two year old daughter to spend the night at the OW's house. We have a verbal agreement that she is not to spend the night there. He usually takes her to his parent's house (where he is supposed to be living!) on the weekends that he has her. I don't think she is in any danger there...it is just the fact that she is there in that immoral environment!<P>Please pray for me to be strong! I have been reading posts and praying for all of you too!<P>Darlene

Darlene, it isn't at all unusual for a spouse to try to push your buttons. Consider it a test and plan to succeed.<P>I'm happy for your news about being with your H, just be smart and use protection. He's messing with your health and the life of his daughter's mother.<P>Best wishes,<P>------------------<BR>Lor<BR>"Do not get tired of doing what is right, for after awhile you will reap a harvest of blessings if you do not get discouraged and give up. (Gal 6:9)<P><BR>