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Please respond with any successful Plan A
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In WI; WH is not required to vacant the residence so he is living with me and continues to see OW; I read surviving an affair, love busters, however, I'm not having success with fulfilling H emotional needs even thou I realize what OW is fulfilling for him; admiration and appreciation. I feel that I'm so jealous that I continue to do LB and feel worst after I calm down. How can I fulfill my WH emotional needs without feeling like I'm being used? Thank you, I really need to hear from others.
Re: Please respond with any successful Plan A
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Hi - I'm new and in pretty rough shape myself. However I have pretty well stopped LB's (except snoring) with Prayer. Morning and evening I review actions, confess shortcommings, ask for guidanse, patience, strength, a peacefull friendly countenance, what ever! It's all small stuff to the Big Guy; you will gain perspective, and see God's work in time. It has really helped me, especially around my children.
All the best, hang in there!
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If you both go to Read Only Posts, lostva's story is an inspiration. Her H moved out, planned to marry the OW, and at the last minute, he asked to come back. They took the opportunity given them to rebuild and work on their marriage.

That is a Plan A success story.

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