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<BR>I am so nervous!!! H is supposed to meet me at his mom's this evening. If he doesn't show up, I won't have a chance to see him until Friday. I am praying he shows up!! I keep taking deep breaths (yes I am now able to), but today they're not really helping. I'll probably be a wreck until he either lets me know he won't be there or I actually see him. I've never sweated so much in my life!!! YUK!!!
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Mitzi,<P>Take a moment and collect your thoughts...<P>Breath...<P>Ok, the best advice I can give you is to loose all of your expectations. It is hard as hell to do.<P>Get your acceptance levels real high.<P>And you won't be let down.<P>And pray for both of these.<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>
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I don't have any expectations about what will happen when I see him. The only expectation I have is that he wants to see his kids and will be there this evening. I pray constantly for strength, courage and wisdom. And also peace. It seems to be helping because most of the time, I'm amazingly calm. I guess God does hear my prayers.
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Mitzi- How long has the affair been going on?<P>I hope you do see him, aor hw wants to see the kids atleast. Just try to stay calm if he doesnt show up. That sounds crazy, but try.<P>------------------<BR>brownphdt<P>
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The "Fling" has only been going on for about 2 months. Kinda short I know. But I figure the sooner I can get him to feel safe coming home, the easier it might be to get him to cut all ties with her. I can't do alot when he's not here.
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Mitzie~<BR>If the affair was only 2 months old I would say you have a much better chance of working things out then some. But do not count your chickens till they hatch, take it one step at a time and remember that you can only control yourself, no one else and no one else can control you! God Bless!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's <BR>Bren<P>You won't see things until your ready to not be blind!<P>
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I've already talked to him 3 times today. He was going to try to meet us at the play ground at 1pm. SO I was running late and called to tell him. Then he called back and said he couldn't find a way to get there so he'd see us this evening. If he backs out this evening, I'll be crushed.
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