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I messed up big time tonight. WH called to see what time to pick up S tomorrow and I wasn't here. I called him back and we discussed the arrangements. He is going to try to keep S overnight for the first time. I told him that I didn't want S at the pigs house. Isn't that terrible? WH just said "I know". I really screwed up. Well she looks like a pig and she is one, I couldn't help myself. I guess I have some anger left inside of me. It is after all only week 3 since he has been gone. Any advice or beatings?
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Oh, I think we've all done things like that. Just continue in Plan A.
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I wouldn't beat myself up about it at all, you are human afterall & in an unbearable situation. Saying you will do & say all the right things is very easy to say & much harder to do.
I messed up many a time w/ words while my H was living w/ OW, it happens, just try to be calmer next time.
I am praying for you.
God Bless,
BG
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Thanks you guys for the prayers and the kind words. It is hard not to screw up every little thing, and always be nice. Esp. when the OW is a pig......LOL. Thanks again.
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I don't see where it is that you think you "messed up". Are far as I know you only need to be nice and respectful toward your WS. I Haven't seen or read anything saying you need to be nice or understanding towards the OP or about your WS ongoing A.
Don't sweat this.
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Well it didn't seem to bother him when he came today so I guess he was so much in the fog he probably didn't notice that I called her a pig anyway. Maybe he thinks she is a pig too? Who knows, I don't speak fogese.
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You are too much, that gave me a chuckle.
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