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Hey all,
I was just wondering if you all still wear your wedding ring if you are in plan b? Also, how does it make you feel if WS is not wearing a ring?
My WS is not wearing his anymore and it just hurts really bad. He's the cheater. He's the one that did this all then wanted to fix things and make it all better. He never took off his ring until now - now that he is in love with his coworker and all the girls at work think he's hot. Now he's acting like he isn't married. He isn't even seeing his kids as often as I would've thought. One day I want to divorce him, the next I want to beg him to stay. Where do we draw a line and say enough is enough?Don't we all deserve a faithful and loving spouse rather than forcing someone to love us?
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My WH gave me his wedding ring the day he moved out. I do not wear mine either. Yes we should have someone that loves us without being forced. This is the beauty of Plan B. Also I am the same way. Flip flopping back and forth and so is SS. We all have those normal feelings I think. You love them but hate them all at once. It is mind boggling and confusing and painful and there really isn't much else to say about it.
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I am still wearing my wedding ring and engagement ring, along with the double heart and diamind,two toned gold ring my husband gave me last year for my birthday.
I will not take off my wedding rings even if my husband divorces me because in God's eyes we will still me married. I am so afraid my husband will find another woman who wants to get married in the Catholic church and he will have our marriage annulled.
He was never a big fan of wearing any jewelry but he would wear his wedding ring when he wasn't at work. He stopped wearing his wedding ring after my birthday last summer when he started his affair. She would take off her engagement ring when she and my husband were together - because of the guilt, I suppose.
Also, the wedding band keeps some men away. :-)
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I hae not worn my wedding band for 8 years. It got too small. WH has always worn his.
So much for the wedding ring.
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We never had one. So I had no ring, neither did he.
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