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#472995 03/25/04 01:12 AM
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I was doing good today then all of the sudden I just feel so down. I did not message my H my usual goodnight message. I haven't tried to contact him at all today and of course he hasn't to me either. I haven't talked to him on the phone at all for over a week now. I know it is probably the "taker" in me but I feel like why should I bother, he obviously doesn't want to talk to me or he would.

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I'm here with you right now.....

Maybe we can sit with our backs together, like Forrest and Bubba, so neither of us has to sleep with our heads in the mud.... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

I'm debating whether or not I'm ready for Plan B or not, and I have been down for a couple of days. Seems to be plagueing a lot of us lately... But there are good things happening to others as well. Try to find something to do today that benefits just you. I'm going to the gym today to run and do an abs class.

Hang in there. You're not alone.

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ANGEL,

It is normal to feel that way. I know how exactly it is like. Please think something positive, and do something to make yourself busy. One thing i did is to come here to read others posts. It really helped. You are not alone. we are all here together, with GOD's help. Keep your faith, chin up. Lots of love and Hugs.

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Thanks everyone, I try to keep myself busy and night and have actually found a great computer game that I play online after my son goes to bed so I try to keep my mind occupied with that.

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NobodysAngel,
Are you working right now? I'm only working part-time and I'm thinking about going back to full-time so I can keep all this stuff off my mind. I will be majorly busy that way but it will keep me from going crazy being home with the kids all day. Plus I will need to start working full-time again for the money since WH moved out.

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Yes, I am working full time which helps alot but somedays I have a lot of down time and then I just think, think think.


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