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Working on plan A and have been doing well in my actions toward my WH. I have also been making an effort to do things for myself but I feel like I am faking it. Don't get me wrong I have had some fun with my friends but I also still obsess about my situation. Do I just keep on and eventually it will click or am I approaching this wrong. I just want to go out and have a great time and not worry about where WH is or what the future holds. Ugh what a ride.
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Its really hard not to think of the mess our WS's have created 24/7. I found out in Dec about OW and suspected an A. Found out for sure in Feb. that was indeed a PA when H told me OW was pregnant. Believe me I live this nightmare 24 hours a day still, but things are getting better. H is not at home right now, so it is hard to Plan A, but I try my best. Keep doing Plan A and take care of yourself. I have become the queen of the treadmill. I find this is a good escape. I turn the music up loud and start walking. Its at least a temporary escape. I have also turned to my faith. The moment I realized that I could not control this situation and decided to put it in God's hands I felt tremendously better. I still have bad days, but I am doing better. One day at a time.
Take care of yourself,
Kris
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