Hi everyone.

Plan B in effect since this past Monday.

H visited with kids at my mom's house yesterday. I asked him to be gone before I picked them up at 6:15.

He was still there. He didn't look at me, nor say Hi.

Last night I left voicemail for him to call. He never did.

This morning I left voicemail explaining to him that we have two daughters together and I need him to call me to talk about them.

He never called.

Everyone that knows us (including myself) has come to the conclusion that he doesn't want to be a Daddy, and this is his copout.

I am so sad for my kids.

They are beautiful and innocent and in denial.

They think Daddy is going to come home and everything will be great like it was a few months ago.

Dec. 3-13 we were on a dream family vacation together in Disney,

Jan 06 he told me he was never in love with me for the past 15 years although every action he has made in 15 years contradicts that.

I'm so sad. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

M, Please cheer up, don't let his action hurt you. We were in Disney Dec. 26-Jan 2, even with OW's family. Jan 6, he told me he didn't love me anymore. They are in their fog land now.

Try to start doing some things for you, even if you don't feel like it. You need to stay in Plan B until he wakes up.

lostnhurt.

Are you saying you went to Disney with OW's family? And your D day was Jan 06 also??

A lawyer I spoke with says that the beginning of Jan. if famous for affairs being revealed.

I am so afraid of how much more damage will be done before he "wakes up"

I am pretty confident I will be served with D papers anyday now.

Yes, we went to Disney with a big group of people from church. We rented a bus to go down there. I asked H to go, he said no. Then later he said the OW's family will go, so he will go, because he didn't want to go with church people. OW's family doesn't go to church. How naive I was.