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#473319 04/07/04 12:35 AM
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My WH told his immediate boss about the affair after D-day. His boss sensed something was wrong and asked. Rumurs started flying and my WH was confronted by someone in a higher position. He told the truth and now people from the President of the company on down know.

WH was called into a meeting today and told he was not to have any phone or e-mail (at work)contact with OW. He is also not allowed to travel to any state west of where we are. OW works for a company that is a franchise owner of stores to the west of us. They even asked for him to make a decision about his relationship with her in 30 days and let them know his decision. He fought that claiming it invades his personal life to much and they backed off on it. He is on probation for 60 days then they will meet again.

It is scary that his job is in jeopardy. I'm a SAHM so no income coming from me. At the same time I find it all kind of funny they want what I want.
Jenn

<small>[ April 07, 2004, 12:42 AM: Message edited by: limbojenn ]</small>

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This is excellent news. Be glad that his work supports marriage and family. There is nothing like a little light on an affair to end the fantasy. Hang in there and see what happens.

#473321 04/07/04 08:21 AM
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i'm still relatively new here but sounds like there is a lot of potential and i'm glad his work is doing what they are. unfortunately my H's work would have no influence and his coworkers/friends probably have been encouraging his behavior. prayers to you.

#473322 04/07/04 01:34 PM
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Good news! It's nice to have a company that will help to reinforce your principals. My Wh's company said they don't care what he does in his personal life as long as he's not messing around with OW on the clock.


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