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I wished we could buy some Patience I need some extra really bad. I want to blow my stack. You see my h and I own a plumbing business so I work with him every day. I have asked that he keep the ow out of our trucks. Well low and behold she's riding with him today. Her parents and her are always going to sue someone for anything. All I need is for her to get hurt in one of our trucks and sue us. I think she thinks my husband is loaded. Well when she really learns he's not she will still hang on at 29 he's her first boyfriend. Prayers please help.<BR>Carol
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Carol,<P>I learned my lesson along time ago, don't pray for patience because God will answer by giving you alot of things to be patient about.<P>His your H still seeing OW?<P>Does she work for you?<P>He doesn't need to be around her, of course you already know that, does he?<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>
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Yes he is still seeing her she lives with him. She tells him what to do and all I believe. No she doesnt work for us. She works at a gas station, her family owns it. Well the gas station doesnt sell gas anymore because of some big problem her family had with money or something like that. I was surprised my h hooked up with her. My H and our employees used to talk about her a lot how she is not very smart. She eats a lot. She has no personality. I did tell my h I didnt think he should be around her. He just smiles.<BR>Carol
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Carol,<P>It looks like we are in kind of the same boat.<P>The <B>best</B> advice given to me was to stop begging and barganing. Whenever something happens respond 180 degrees of my normal responce, throws them way off balance and they have no choice but to respond differently.<P>You will have to let anger and resentment roll off of your back, and commit zero <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3400_lovebust.html" TARGET=_blank>Love Busters</A>. It is hard as hell to do. I've seen some results to the positive. We have to create a safe place for them to return to. If we want them back.<P>How long since discovery?<P>I don't think I'm all that wise.<P>I did take my Grandmothers advice and make Proverbs 4 as my goal in life.<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>
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Bill,<BR>I knew something was wrong Thanksgiving of 1998, Found out about ow 12-4-98, Found out who she was 12-23-98 He moved out 1-18-99
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